Last weekend, the little kids, my mom, and I went to Independence, Kansas. My friend's father passed away and I wanted to go be with Jennie as she cried. I am the only one in our family who has returned to Kansas since we moved to Texas almost five years ago. Since the little ones were so young, they don't remember any of it, and I thought it might be fun to show them where they used to live. I was excited for them to meet some of my friends, too. This is what our old house looks like now:
I loved that house -- trouble and all. It was my hundred-year-old doll house that had many of the original oak floors, lots of beautiful leaded glass, and many carved details that brought it such warmth and personality. I miss that home, but the modern one we are in now is easier to take care of with lots of kids.
Will and Allen were at Cub Scout camp, so they didn't join us. The only thing Will remembers about Kansas is a sweet man he always calls "White Haired John." He pleaded with me to go tell John he said hi, but it didn't take much begging since Norma and John are always fun to visit with. Though the Hamilton's lived across the street from us, I got to know them when he would bring her to shop at the scrapbook store. John would visit and play with Will while I helped Norma. As we were visiting with them, John shared a story.
"When I was young and working for the gas company, I worked with a fella who like to call everyone by their name, even when he didn't know it. If he didn't know their name, he just called them George. ... when I would come to the scrapbook store, I always called Will 'George,' just to be silly. He always called me 'George,' too. It was our little joke."
My mom and I burst out laughing because that story explained SO much about my family! When I can't spit out my children's correct name (ask any mom with more than one child what I mean...) I call them all "George." In fact, I told the triplets' baseball coach that if he couldn't remember who he was talking to, he could call "George" and all three would come see what he wanted to say. Really... all my kids answer to "George" and I never really knew why I called them that. Now I know... It's all because of John's friend, then John and Will, and now all of us do that.
Will was glad that we went to see his friend. I think John was surprised that he made such an impact on our sweet little guy -- well, he WAS little when we moved when he was only three years old.
Before we visited with Norma and John, we had gone to church -- at our old church. It was interesting to see how things have changed. The pastor was surprised to be shaking hands with the little people he visited at the hospital when they were a day old. I forgot to factor in that services there are long (especially for five-year olds), and that Ben, Maddie, and Jon sat still for the twelve hours of driving the day before. Ben had a major melt-down at the visitation at the funeral home. We took the kids back to the hotel for naps. Mom stayed with them and I went back to visit Jennie at the funeral home. It was a tough couple of hours -- no fun seeing a good friend hurt so much, but I am so glad we went.
After naps, we made a somewhat surprise-visit to Cheryl and Dave Haley. Dave used to work with Allen, and I think that's how Cheryl and I met. We got to talking about gardening, and Bible studies, and reading great books, and our friendship grew from there. Cheryl helped me a lot when the triplets were born. She brought dinner and she rocked and fed babies. I loved it when she would come play with Will and read with him and take him on walks. The Haley's place out in the country was a perfect spot to visit -- Ben and Jon splashed or collected bugs, Maddie picked flowers. It was just as beautiful and comfortable as I remembered, and I'm glad we stopped.
It was a long drive and a quick trip, but I am so glad to have gotten to go. Thanks for riding with me, Mom -- you made the trip so much easier for me!