Bananas (noun)
go bananas go crazy, go nuts (slang), go insane, go bonkers (slang, chiefly Brit.), go mental (slang), go barmy (slang), go loopy (informal), go round the bend (Brit. slang), go frantic, go batty (slang), go doolally (slang), go round the twist (Brit. slang), go nutty (slang) People went bananas with boredom. . . . or maybe they were grumpy and had three grouchy little kids who needed naps but refused to take them and a really long list of things that needed to get done without kids hanging on their legs.
Friday, January 29, 2010
The Places We Go
Thursday, January 28, 2010
This day in history
I was in that semi-hazy state where I was alternating between snoozing and watching cartoons from the couch in the basement of our home in Pittsburgh. I don't remember if I was home alone or if dad was working from home that day, but Mom called me on the phone to tell me to turn on the television to a particular channel. Thinking back, maybe it was on all the channels since I'm sure we didn't have cable at that point. I turned on the t.v. or changed the channel, I forget which, and waited excitedly to see the space shuttle take off. I remember being pretty excited to see it, and I didn't understand enough about what I saw to realize the tragedy that occurred as my nine-year-old eyes watched.
On this day in 1986, the Challenger Space Shuttle Exploded at 11:39 AM, EST. "The space shuttle Challenger STS-51L exploded, 74 seconds into its flight and about 10 miles above the earth. Hundreds of millions around the world watched television replays of the horrifying event that killed seven people."
It was later, as the news played and replayed on all the stations, that I started to understand what happened. When I returned to Miss South's class later that week, we talked about the explosion. We talked even more about the 7 people on the Challenger, specifically about Christa McAuliffe, the first member of the Teacher in Space project.
My mom remembers where she was when she heard that Kennedy had been shot. I guess every one has their own list of tragedies they remember being played out in the media, and this is one of mine. Two others that leap to my mind are Princess Di being killed in an accident and the Twin Towers falling on September 11th. I think I'll end this entry and just go sit in silence for a moment. Praying for peace in the hearts of those affected by such tragedies. Praying thanksgiving for my life and my loved ones.
Sunday, January 24, 2010
Local Flooding Irritates Mama
When I got to the top of the stairs, Ben was heading down to us just crying. I noticed the bathroom light was on and I heard the sink, and in that split second I rationalized that Ben had woken Will, and Will was getting himself a drink. When I picked Ben up, he was soaked. Not just sweaty-damp, but DRENCHED. I flew to the bathroom and what did I find?
A soggy Jon standing on a stool, a sink overflowing with warm water, a counter-top full of water, a toothbrush and soap bottle floating in the sink, a waterfall cascading to the tile, and a quarter-inch of water over the tiles in front of the vanity and into the other room that has the toilet and tub. I smacked the handle of the faucet to turn off the water and grabbed the towels to start sopping up the mess. In the toilet room, I found the linen cabinet open and a basket of stuff from in there was on the lid of the toilet. Seeing all that, I still couldn't figure out if Ben fell from the commode (where there were wet footprints) or from the counter or from walking across wet tiles.
I was mad! I called Allen to come help me, and he stripped the boys of their wet PJs while I cleaned the floor with the towels -- it was due for a mopping anyway (the ONLY silver lining I could find on this cloud.) When I got to the boys' room I threw some dry PJs to the kids and told them to put them on. The PJs just sat there while the boys, with their eyes big and worried, refused to move their hands from the protective positions over their fannies. Oh, they knew, all right. They knew they were in BIG trouble.
I was hoping they'd sleep late since they were up three hours past bedtime, but it didn't turn out that way. . . . maybe naptime will be extended. I can hope. . . .
PS -- I just realized there is another silver lining. . . when Will was two, he overflowed a sink in our Kansas home. I discovered it when it started dripping on my head in the kitchen down below. THANKFULLY, the flooding last night was contained to the bathroom and (as far as we know) did not soak through the floor and ceiling.
Friday, January 22, 2010
One day at a time
Tuesday at 8:06am -- Two little boys with ugly coughs and a little girl who wants her share of the attention -- its a pj and loving day here, but I'll miss Bible study. :(
Wednesday at 9:59pm -- When I get to heaven I'm going to ask God, "Why?" As in WHY do the tornado sirens go off when we are trying to get the kids in bed. And after we calm them down and tuck them in, and they keep getting up because they are worried, and we finally get them to stay. . . WHY do we have to go through it all AGAIN!! But, I plan to say THANKS many more times before I ask. Everything here was fine and we are okay.
Thursday at 8:14pm -- Ben, Maddie, and Jon all went to mother's day out today because they were doing class pictures. With a day to myself, I went to the Bible bookstore and Barnes & Noble, had lunch with a good friend, got the oil changed in the car, and browsed several other stores -- just because. It was a nice day. Will brought home a letter that the county was offering free H1N1 vaccines for students at his school. We took Will to the school to get his shot, and they told us we could ALL get it. All six of us -- what a family event! Yes, there were some tears, but as we were leaving, Ben and Jon each went to to the nurse that gave them shots and said, "Thank you for the shot and bandaid!" We went out for dinner and treats, then brought our tired kiddos home for bed.
Friday at 1:06pm -- I am thankful for the quiet few minutes I found today. Allen and I did not sleep well, and I am exhausted. Ben, Maddie, and Jon are back to coughing and have runny noses. Ben has been particularly cranky and clingy this morning. I've cuddled kids most of the morning, I'm cuddled out, and I must recharge. . . but Jon isn't sleeping, I'm achy, and I am quickly approaching grumpy.
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
More Precious Than Gold
So be truly glad! There is wonderful joy ahead, even though it is necessary for you to endure many trials for a while. These trials are only to test your faith, to show that it is strong and pure. It is being tested as fire tests and purifies gold and your faith is far more precious to God than mere gold. So if your faith remains strong after being tried by fiery trials, it will bring you much praise and glory and honor on the day when Jesus Christ is revealed to the whole world. I Peter 1:6-7, New Living TranslationGold is highly-sought-after -- everyone wants it in the largest, purest amounts possible, but it isn't passed over if it isn't big enough. Our faith -- anyone's faith -- is more valuable than gold. Although little bits of gold are found in dirt and rocks, it isn't less desirable. Jesus said: " . . . if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, . . . nothing is impossible for you." Matthew 17:20
Like the little bits of gold added together, just little bits of faith can become much more. Gold is also the most malleable and ductile metal. It is moldable and flexible -- it can be pounded, without breaking, so thin that it is translucent . With faith, I, too, can take a lot of stress without breaking. With faith, I am moldable rather than fragile.
For gold to be malleable and ductile, it must be pure. To purify (or refine) gold, heat is applied to melt it so the impurities can be released and washed away. "We should consider trials to be joy" (I Peter 1:6) because like heat melts the gold, the trials stress our faith so the crud can be released.
Pure gold does not oxidize (rust) in air or water, but it maintains its color and luster. I should strive for the pure faith to maintain my beauty and, like gold, we can be perfect and unblemished.
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
Piles of Books and Another first
Jon and I had a wonderful time at Barnes & Noble. He had received a gift card at Christmas, so I told him he could pick a book. We sat on the floor and read a lot, he got to pick out a sweet treat, then he picked the book he wanted: an interactive book about things that go (trains, trucks, planes, tractors, etc.) Next we went to get him some new sneakers, then, as he requested, we went home for lunch to eat peanut belly jelly. It was a fun day together!
Saturday was a day for Will and me. He had been working hard to earn a date at Barnes & Noble and he got his chance. He and I left around 10:30 and hit four different used bookstores trying to collect the Magic Treehouse books we didn't already have. We had a nice lunch out and went to B&N. Will picked out Arabian Nights and two more Magic Treehouse books to use his gift card, then we went to Smoothie King for a treat. When we got home mid-afternoon, he had about 14 "new" books, and I had found 9 or 10 used books Allen and I are aiming to read this year. We had a fun day together. I really miss the bi-monthly dates we used to have, but a few every now and then still keep us close.
Sunday wasn't actually a school night this week because Will had Monday off for MLK day. We took the kids to the drive-in theater to see The Princess and the Frog. The little kids have never been to a theater for a movie, so this was a totally new experience. Before the show the Chicken Dance was playing over the speakers, and our van was really shaking with all the dancing inside. I had taught Will how to do the Chicken Dance when we took him to the drive-in in October, so he was teaching the others. After the movie started, Ben kept putting his face on the window so he'd fog it, step back, wipe the window, repeat. We had a great time once the kids stayed in a seat. It was a cute movie, and Maddie, especially, was thrilled to see a princess show.
Monday, a school holiday, was hectic. It started out fine. I even managed to keep the TV off most of the day. The little ones took naps with no trouble, but I didn't get my quiet time because Will was very chatty. . . then hyper. . . then climbing the walls with excess energy. I wasn't feeling great, and I got frustrated rather quickly. The afternoon was chaotic with the kids being rather loud and rambunctious, but we somehow survived it.
Today is the day I normally go to Bible study, but we stayed home. Jon and Ben both have ugly coughs and Maddie wants her share of the attention, too. Two friends of mine have kiddos with RSV right now, so I'm playing it safe and keeping them home. I don't think that's what it is, but I don't want them out and about with germy kids if their immune systems aren't at their best. Today, we've stayed in PJs and spent the morning cuddling.
Friday, January 15, 2010
Lots of Laughter
"Jon, please don't climb that ladder when you are wearing high heeled shoes."
"Maddie, he is called 'Santa Clause,' not 'Santa THE Clause."
"No, sweetie, I am pretty sure Santa wears more than just a hat and diaper. Oh? Yeah, maybe he wears pink tennis shoes, but definitely with socks. Yes, Dear. You can still be Santa without putting the socks on."
At some point just before lunch, I had to sit down to laugh. Ben (wearing only a diaper and a pair of blue slippers) was chasing Maddie (wearing only the Santa hat and diaper) round and round the couch. They kept crashing into each other and falling to the floor full of giggles. It was the goofiest sight, especially since it is cold here. I had put on socks, slippers, and a sweater just to keep from shivering and they have been running around nearly nude.
We had a good morning with lots of laughter and hugs. I made curried chicken and rice salad for our dinner tonight and the little kids colored. Was it too much to hope for a smooth naptime? It had been TOO quiet for a bit long, so I went to check on the boys. Ben was snuggled in his comforter sound asleep, but Jon was not in bed, and I didn't find him immediately. I sternly commanded, "Jon! Where are you? You get back in bed." Usually, at that point, I get the whiny "I don't want to sleep!" but the response was silence. I finally found him . . . hiding . . .
... yes, he is under his bed. I don't know how he stays warm or comfortable this way, but I won't complain. This is the second day in a row he has gone to sleep at naptime without a fight.
And now the day is about to be even better. . . Will is coming home early for a long weekend!
Monday, January 11, 2010
A Pile of Stones
Many stories in the Bible talk about the piles of rocks that the Jews would create so that years later, other generations would ask about the stones, and the stories would be retold. Like a headstone over a grave, some stones are used as reminders. When I was in Girl Scouts, we learned about marking trails. Some of the signs were made of piles of stones, or cairns -- they showed the way to go. I need to share with them the stories of God's miracles for me (and not just the birth stories.) I need to tell them the ways to go, or at least help them find a way of discovering the path for themselves. I need to make some rock-piles for my children.
I've thought about scrapbooking my spiritual journey, but since I can't even make time to print birthday pictures, I am afraid this would be another unfinished project. I've thought about journaling it; but then it ends up as another thing on my "to-do" list. This blog has served as my scrapbook and journal for two years now, so I think I will just add the spiritual parts, too. After all, my REAL life comprises the scriptures, the snotty-nose days, the overwhelming laundry piles, the laughter, the joy. Why not open up just a little more and share the deeper things too -- they ARE me, after all. So I'm going to do it. I will not share everything, just some that I'd share at Bible study. That way, my children will get to read about the deeper Me and the God I serve that I pray they will know intimately, too.
So, here is the first story. I journaled it in the margin of a book I had been reading back in November, but, to me, the words are timeless -- God speaks, I just have to listen.
Yes, God speaks louder than Dora the Explorer! I sat reading my Bible study, somehow able to focus since the triplets were calm and quiet, mesmerized by the cartoons. Just before I got the the paragraph below, Maddie climbed up and snuggled unto my lap. I hugged her, got us comfy again, then kissed her curly head and smelled the lavender of her shampooed hair. I took a deep breath to refocus on the words and read:"The feminine trend of self-loathing has robbed us of enjoying God's favor. The self-esteem crisis has reached stunning heights, imposing sanctions on how much we are loved by Christ. It is a tragedy indeed. Imagine if your daughter refused to believe that you loved here, that she had any favor in your eyes. If she wasted away in condemnation and obsessed about past mistakes, resisting the intensity of your love, you would die right along with her spirit." (Hatmaker, Jen. Ms. Understood, 2008)It brought me to tears -- sobbing tears of sad "what-ifs" and joyful tears for "what is!" As distracted as I could have been with the TV blaring silly songs and the kids tumbling about, it was my daughter, and her interruption that made those words hit my heart.
Monday, January 4, 2010
Christmas Chowder
3 slices bacon, slivered (or more)
1/2 cup onion, chopped
1/2 cup carrot, chopped
1/2 cup celery, chopped
1/2 cup roasted red bell pepper, chopped
2 cups milk
1 15-ounce jar Alfredo pasta sauce
2 1/2 cups frozen corn
1 14-ounce can creamed corn
1 cup cooked ham, diced (or more)
2 4-ounce cans diced green chile peppers, undrained
1 teaspoon dried oregano, crushed
1 teaspoon Worchestershire sauce
1 teaspoon salt
1/4 teaspoon black pepper
Tony Chachere's Spice & Herb blend (optional)
In a 4- to 6-quart soup pot, cook bacon over medium-high heat until crisp. Remove bacon and set aside. Add onion, carrot, celery, and roasted red bell pepper to pot, cook and stir until vegetables are tender. Return bacon to pot and add remaining ingredients. Bring chowder to simmer. Simmer gently, uncovered for 25-30 minutes stirring often. This always is better the next day, and it freezes well, too. 8 servings
Saturday, January 2, 2010
The Last Ten
- We lived in our first home in Canyon, TX; we bought our second home in Independence, KS; we lived in another apartment in Texas; and now we are in our third home. That's four different mailing addresses in as many cities.I've worked as a chemical engineer in sales and consulting; worked with Allen on a MLM internet-based business; taught high-school science; worked at a quilt store; and opened a scrapbook store with my friend. I am now a stay-at-home mom, and plan to be for awhile.
- Allen has been a grad-student, worked as an intern at Sandia National Labs, completed his Master's degree in Chemical Engineering, and worked at two different refineries under five different companies.
- We have vacationed, visited, or lived in twenty-three states: Arkansas, California, Colorado, Florida, Illinois, Iowa, Kansas, Louisiana, Maine, Maryland, Missouri, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Mexico, New York, Ohio, Oklahoma, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Texas, Utah, Washington, and West Virginia.We have lived in the United States, and visited Costa Rica, Canada, Mexico, Belize, Guatemala, Turkey, and Greece, with airport stops and passpost stamps in Germany.
- I have been to Grandma Williams' funeral, but had to miss the funeral of Mema Dobbs since I was very pregnant with triplets.I have been pregnant fifteen months, birthed four precious children, changing diapers for more than six years.
- I have made countless friends, but lost contact with many. There are still a precious few that I've kept in contact with the last ten years.
- We have adopted three kittens (Tico, Ramses, and Pickles) a dog (Shadow).
- We have painted seven rooms and hired someone else to paint another six.
- I have quilted off-and-on for seven years, gardened off-and-on for ten years, scrapbooked for nine, and read for pleasure for as long as I can remember.I have had three different pairs of glasses (with another on the way), but worn contacts often.
- I have worn many sizes of jeans from 14 to 4, and that entire range has been worn within the last year and a half.I have witnessed the rising popularity of cell-phones, GPS-use, laptop computers, DVDs, reality television, SUVs, and WalMart.
- I have gotten caught up in the news when Bush defeated Gore; when I was terrorized from afar on September 11th; when the tsunami washed away thousands of people near the Indian Ocean; when friends were affected by Hurricane Katrina; when my friends, business, and family were affected by the Kansas floods; when my retirement funds were drained by the stock market crashing; and when the first black U.S. president was elected.
Friday, January 1, 2010
Expanding our horizons (and our library)
- Random House's List of 100 Best Novels (1998)
- BBC's Big Read: Top 100 (2004)
- U.K. Telegraph's 110 Best Books: The Perfect Library (2008)
- Newsweek's Top 100 Books: The Meta-List (2009)
- Time Magazine's 100 All-time Best Novels (2009)
- Best Books of the Decade (Miller, 2009) -- A random list of the best books of the last decade that seemed to have similar listings to several others that I googled.
- We started with the pre-21st century novels. First we figured out which we already had in our home library and decided which
- a.) we were interested in re-reading;
- b.) one or both of us had not read; or
- c.) one of us had read and was deeply moved by and, therefore, insisted it be on the list so she finally would read it after over fifteen years of trying to convince her to pick up the book.
- Next we wandered through the many lists figuring out which ones made it to all or most of the lists. If we hadn't read it before, it made the cut -- at least until we filled the card for 2010.
- For the books from 2000-2009, we looked for those listed on other similar lists, and chose the few we both were interested in reading.
- We tried to get a good balance on genres, publishing dates, and readability, without choosing more than one book by the same author.
1. The Prince (Machiavelli, 1513)
2. Frankenstein (Shelley, 1818)
3. The Count of Monte Cristo (Dumas, 1844)
4. Jane Eyre (Bronte, C, 1847)5. Wuthering Heights (Bronte, E, 1847)
6. David Copperfield (Dickens, 1850)
7. War and Peace (Tolstoy, 1869)
8. Middlemarch (Eliot, 1874)
9. Portrait of a Lady (James, 1881)
10.Treasure Island (Stevenson, 1883)
11.Tess of the D'Urbervilles (Hardy, 1891)
12.Anne of Green Gables (Montgomery, 1908)
13.The Secret Garden (Burnett, 1911)
14.Ulysses (Joyce, 1922)
15.Winnie the Pooh (Milne, 1926)
16.To the Lighthouse (Woolf, 1927)
17.Sound and the Fury (Faulkner, 1929)
18.Swallows and Amazons (Ransome, 1930)
19.Brave New World (Huxley, 1932)
20.Murder on the Orient Express (Christie, 1937)
21.Gone with the Wind (Mitchell, 1937)
22.Of Mice and Men (Steinbeck, 1937)
23.Rebecca (du Maurier, 1938)
24.For Whom the Bell Tolls (Hemingway, 1940)
25.Brideshead Revisited (Waugh, 1945)
26.Nineteen Eighty Four (Orwell, 1949)
27.The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe (Lewis, 1950)
28.Catcher in the Rye (Salinger, 1951)
29.Go Tell it on the Mountain (Baldwin, 1953)
30.Lord of the Flies (Golding, 1954)
31.The Lord of the Rings (Tolkein, 1954)
32.Lolita (Nabokov, 1955)
33.On the Road (Kerous, 1957)
34.Rabbit, Run (Updike, 1960)
35.Catch-22 (Heller, 1961)
36.Dune (Herbert, 1965)
37.One Hundred Years of Solitude (Marquez, 1967)
38.Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep? (Dick, 1968)
39.Master and Commander (O'Brian, 1969)
40.Slaughterhouse Five (Vonnegut, 1969)
41.The Stand (King, 1978)
42.The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy (Adams, 1979)
43.Midnight's Children (Rushdie, 1981)
44.Neuromancer (Gibson, 1984)
45.Beloved (Morrison, 1987)
46.Memoirs of a Geisha (Golden, 1997)
47.The Kite Runner (Hosseini, 2003)
48.The Road (McCarthy, 2006)
49.The Shack (Young, 2007)
50.The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society (Shaffer & Barrows, 2008)